Trey's legacy, my life lately, and summer in the U.S.

Losing a friend hurts.  It does not matter if that friend is a human or a pet.  This reality is true because friendship is an idea, and all ideas have an individual concept to them which reflect that person’s specific beliefs.  Friendship to me is an interesting idea since I feel that it has really no basis for primitive creatures besides in creating a competitive advantage when hunting and gathering for food.  Overtime, the pre-frontal lobe of the brain has once or twice helped humanity to develop positive and innovative solutions to problems which in-turn has allowed societies to modernize to where the world is today.  This brings me back to my original point of why friendship in the modern sense is an interesting concept to me. 

Over the last few thousand years, people have decided that having a plutonic friend based on mere similarities, common interests, and personality is a healthy and rewarding experience to have.  Yes, humans are pack creatures and have always functioned in a society, but that does not directly correlate that the environments in which humans lived promoted real and lasting friendship based on mutually beneficial terms.   I would argue that society has not always functioned with the best in mind for everyone.   An example that I think would demonstrate what I am talking about is slavery as slavery was meant to benefit everyone except the slaves themselves.  Likewise, I feel that primitive societies fostered environments of deception as friendships were used primarily as a means to raise your social status, wealth, or survival.  Today, I feel that humanity has realized that having friendships does not always have to be about gauging how to best use people to help your own competitive advantage.  Instead, people have started to realize that friendship is more about finding similarities between two people and enjoying spending time with that person simply because they are an enjoyable companion.

               This brings me back to my second point which is the most relevant one in my life right now as I am dealing with the loss of my first dog, Trey.  I feel looking at this situation from an external view removed from my personal relationship with Trey makes it hard to realize why losing a pet would hurt a person.  The facts are that a pet is nothing more than a domesticated wild animal which humanity has coined a “pet”.   Now, I first prefaced this paragraph with the previous couple for one reason.  I believe that humanity has moved forward since the “cave man” days and found that even animal-human relationships can bring great joy in the lives of both creatures.  Now, I think is as good a time as ever to talk about why human beings are attracted to pets in the first place. 

I remember the first day we took little Trey home from the dog-farm, and I realized that this puppy was going to actually be our families.  I was struck at how small and vulnerable he was than; small enough to almost that he was no bigger than one of my shoes.  He was a small and fluffy little beast back than with enough energy to go on fifty walks a day.  I contrast that with how old and fragile he seemed in the end of his life with his hips faltering and his constant whimpering whenever he heard thunder clouds nearby.  Even if I wanted to get him to go on a walk the last year I was home before coming to China he seemed almost afraid to leave the house as Minnesota’s previous winter was extremely harsh in comparison to the one I was told we had this year.  Since humans and animals both live within the confines of a biologically changing chemistry from birth to death; changes which the body cannot avoid inevitably bring upon the end of life.

Thinking about Trey in the spring of his life is always my favorite thing to do as he had so much vigor for everything as a puppy.  I could always count on throwing him twenty or thirty baseballs the entire length of a field each day after school and him racing back and forth trying to catch the balls as soon as they hit the ground.  Trey always had the best personality with people and dogs as he was extremely friendly to meet.  I was always happy that Trey did not have that annoying tendency of some dogs to bark at strangers or dogs in the distance.  Trey would often ignore dogs which is something that I have learned to admire since being in China and being constantly sought-after by Chinese people.  Sometimes, it is best to just learn to ignore things that cannot be changed and learn to live within the realities of your environment. 

One of my favorite experiences with Trey as a young dog was trying to train him to follow commands.  I have to say that Trey was not the best listener in the world and needed to be reprimanded for a poor performance at least once or twice maybe.  These experiences looking back are always funny to recount.  They are also good examples of times when people are forced to be humbled by their pet’s bad behavior.  I think that training a pet is one of the most genuine experiences which teaches people that in order to gain respect from anyone or anything in life you need to demonstrate that you yourself are worthy of that respect first.  Only after that person or Trey, realizes that you are worthy of respect will they themselves head your caution / command.

The next moment in Trey’s lifetime again is extremely happy as I recount the summer of Trey’s life.  He enjoyed trips to the cabin so much during this time in his life as he found Trout Lake to be the best place for him on this earth.  The family cabin was a heaven for Trey as he took to swimming in Trout Lake instantly.  Trey’s endurance while swimming as a young dog was hard to imagine as my Dad and I would both sit in the lake throwing him tennis balls for at least thirty minutes without him needing to take a break.  As Trey got older he would deploy devious tactics to rest while in the water like trying to come to you while you were swimming.  These moments could get tricky because he was not afraid to use his claws to “stick” you once in a while leaving a person with some bad scratch marks.  Trey also enjoyed going on walks across the Point of Trout Lake.  Trey enjoyed walking in groups of people or as an individual up North as near the road there was always a chance to see a deer or two, or three.  When Trey was younger he might try and chase the deer as they fled from the scene like lightning in a storm.  This time for Trey was always happy as he could always count on me slipping him an ice cream cone here and there after one of my frequent stops at the Cones and Kraft’s ice cream store.  Trey’s happiness was palpable as he often could be seen with his long tong lolling from his mouth in the warmth of Minnesota summers. 

At meal times on these merry occasions at the cabin you could always count on Trey plopping underneath the dinner table hoping for the smallest crumb of food to fall.  Trey could easily become very annoying as he would persist in his attempts to get some food from someone at the table.  Eventually, someone would tell Trey to leave the dinner table in order to stop his pestering.  After a day’s worth of activities Trey would finally start relaxing around eight or eight-thirty.  He would eventually find a place to sit around in the cabin before tucking himself in for the night in his kennel. 

As Trey got a little older we decided that he could handle sleeping in my bedroom.  This was always a funny experience as Trey was an extremely large dog and I a large person sleeping in the same bedroom together.  I just remember thinking that if one of us rolled over in the middle of the night it might spell trouble for the both of us.  Fortunately, Trey found the bottom of the bed the best suited for his personal sleeping habits which seemed fine by me as well.  As I got into high school I decided that it was time to kick Trey out of my bedroom in order to gain my autonomy once again.  The few years that Trey slept in my bedroom were very memorable and funny too now that I think about it. 

When Trey reached maturity he discovered that he enjoyed taking walks more than catching tennis balls or going on runs.  The one consummate thing during the fall of Trey’s life was his love of swimming.  I was always amazed at watching a mature golden-retriever jump face first off the dock into the water to pursue a tennis ball that was cast off from the shore.  It was an extremely heart-warming feeling and a lasting memory that I will cherish forever when thinking about Trey.  As a mature dog Trey realized he enjoyed relaxing during quiet evenings with Mom and Dad reading books in the living room.  Trey was always a people-friendly dog and really felt most at home sitting around next to friends and family members.  Ever-so-often Trey would get a wild spell and try his best to sneak some food off the table, jump on a couch, or put one of our possessions into his mouth in order to show that he wanted to play.  I know that I often was mad when Trey would pester me to take him out on walks when I felt I had something more important to do.  Learning to work with anyone is a life skill and I guess my immaturity at times makes me embarrassed to recount now.  I realize that learning how to live with Trey was something that truly helped me grow as an individual.

In college, I lost some connection with Trey as I was often training for football, studying, or having fun with friends on the weekends.  Trey did not seem to mind that I was not around as much as when I was younger; instead, Trey greeted me with a wagging of his tail each time I visited home.  I realize now that his life was so much about brining joy to other people now.  I truly felt happy when we would be going on a walk together towards the end of his life.  The one constant thing that you could count on Trey throughout his life is that he loved getting pets.  When I say he loved getting pets I really cannot understate how much he loved this sensation.  If you would stay and pet Trey for an hour he would sit there being very happy and content with this situation.  He was also very excited whenever he got a new little chew toy around Christmas time and always seemed to find a way to destroy it in about 2.5 seconds.  His love for socks was also something that you could count on his entire life.  If Trey ever wanted to play with you he would come over to you with a pair of socks in his mouth and approach a person with his tail wagging a million miles per hour.

If Trey had a philosophical ideal it definitely would have been pacifism.  He amazed me at how much he would let other dogs and people do to him before he would start to get upset.  Trey really loved life and I guess it is fitting that he lived as long as he did.  Most dogs are lucky to hit ten and Trey made it to thirteen which is amazing for a big dog.  Thinking back on my life, it is hard to imagine it now without having Trey in it which is why I am going to miss him so much.  I pre-empted my year and a half stay going to China by letting Trey know in my own way that I thought this would be the last time I would see him in this life.  I know now that I am quite fortunate to have had such a wonderful pet that has impacted our family in such a positive way.  While writing this blog I really enjoyed going back in my mind and thinking about both the good and bad of Trey.  Just like a human being animals too have their bad aspects which in-turn people learn to live with and except. 

Some last thoughts on Trey are all funny and I will keep them brief.  Trey was partner to Ryan Wittman breaking his finger in fifth grade during a wrestling match in our living room.  Trey once ate an entire steak when we were not looking before dinner at the cabin.  Once I returned home from high school to discover that Trey had had an accident in his kennel which both surprised and angered me as I too became covered in Trey’s accident soon after he started shaking himself off.  A last note on Trey that is something very funny is that Trey often liked to try and exert his male dominance on people he would meet by attacking their leg.  This was known as the “red rocket” phase of Trey’s life and one that I will always laugh about to myself when remembering Trey’s life.

Back in China, the last few weeks have been pretty frustrating for me knowing that I did not really make that great of an impact on people in the grand scheme of things.  Fortunately, realizing that I was going to be going back home in less than a month has reinvigorated me to continue working hard to pursue my original goals of positively impacted people in Rongchang.  Lately, I have been able to have much more in-depth conversations with people since my Chinese continues to improve each week.  It is always unbelievable for me to think about how much my Chinese has improved in the last few months only.  In these conversations I have learned a lot more about the people in rural China and their general mind set on the outside world.  It is interesting to hear people commenting on Joseph Stalin as a good leader, all Koreans being pretentious, and all Japanese being foreign-devils.  I find that I am a little appalled at how close-minded many of the people our in this little town are in comparison to the educated people I have talked to in China.  Realizing that people all have different experiences aside I and knowing that probably only twenty-five percent of Rongchang’s population have even been outside of Chongqing’s border provinces I find it extremely remarkable that people can make such claims about the outside world with so much certainty.

The past few weeks I have been for the first time since being in China thinking about what it is going to feel like to be back living in the U.S. this summer before returning to China for one more year of teaching in Beibei, Chongqing.  Knowing that I will be heading back to a country and a home which has gone through changes that I personally did not have any part in is going to be interesting to say the least.  I look forward to seeing old friends and family members as well as being able to visit the places that I love most in life.  I also look forward to being able to recount all of my interesting, funny, strange, frustrating, and remarkable experiences of living in China.  I am looking forward to learning from people back home whose lives have changed recently as I have obviously been out-of-touch with a lot of people while living in China.  I can only imagine that some things will have changed while others are similar and that most of my friends will be eerily similar as they were before I left for China last February.  I think that I will not mind any of that though since I am ready for a different experience and am excited to be re-introduced into western culture again.

Looking forward I will start my preliminary packing for my summer vacation this weekend which will be interesting.  It is going to be strange to go through all of my things and recount all of the memories in my first home after college.  I have had a lot of great, interesting, and frustrating experiences while living in China which I am sure to think about while I start my packing process. 

Unfortunately, as has been the case each semester teaching in Rongchang students have stopped showing up to class as they prepare for their final examinations.  This has given me a lot of free time which I have used to exercise, study Chinese, and talking with Chinese people in an attempt to better understand Chinese people.  Interestingly enough I have discovered a tendency for Chinese people of all ages to continuously offer advice to me about how to do things.  From small things such as, “you should wear more clothes”, and “it is best to take a nap or go on a walk after a meal”, to “you need to start studying how to be a father since you are of age now” and “you should eat more rice at meals”.  I find this again an incredibly interesting phenomenon that has recently become very tiresome indeed since people will tell you these types of things each and every day no matter if you ask their opinion or not.  Some of the more funny ones I have heard are; “you seem lonely so you should find a Chinese wife” and “your Chinese is so good that you can bring your family to live with you in China”.  These types of communiqués would not be possible if I could not speak Chinese and appreciate the cultural differences within our two cultures.

This last month in China will be spent saying goodbye to friends and wishing others my best as I am sure I will not many of them again.  I guess with all of these changes happening in my life it is only right that my friends are changing as well with the times.  I hope that this gives you the impression that things are moving along just nicely and that I am mostly positive over my experience in Rongchang.  I know that times are not always easy for me and nor are they for Cory and Ali, but I truly believe that what we have done is good and that our good work touched the lives of many people here in Rongchang.  Even if that does not mean that our efforts will scratch the surface of all the bad things going on in the world it does not matter.  In the end, a person just needs to be responsible for themselves and their own actions.  Trying to save the world is pointless since the world was here before I was born and is still going to be moving along just nicely after I have perished.  Life is an eternal circle of new beginnings and endings intermixed together into something humans have coined, “life”.  I guess I am still pretty darn excited about life and all the interesting possibilities which surround it!

Best,

E.K.

        

                               

    

Musings of a traveler, Mandarin Chinese, An opportunity in Tianjin, And life in general

The last few weeks have been filled with the wonders of adventure as I have been busy traveling once again.  I can safely say that I was in need of an opportunity to remember some of the benefits of living abroad after starting to feel that my passion for being in China waning of late.  To me, the greatest intrinsic benefit of living abroad is getting to visit new and interesting places.  As my Chinese has been steadily improving the past few months so has my ability to travel in China.  My confidence in speaking Chinese and listening comprehension has alleviated a lot of past fears regarding traveling in China.  An interesting observation which many of my friends have made lately regarding my increased self-confidence of late I believe definitely reflects the benefits of being able to speak a foreign language.  I always have a fear of becoming too confident as over-confidence is a sign of having too much pride; however, in this circumstance I have to agree with my friends on this matter.  Being able to travel alone in a foreign country and counting primarily on a foreign language can be a scary thing at first; nonetheless, overtime I certainly have seen my self-confidence improve in a way which has allowed me to feel free to travel.  Before, I was almost paralyzed to do so even though I desperately desired to get out and explore China.

Three weeks ago, Cory and I went on a nice trip to Chengdu together as a way to celebrate my birthday and do some traveling.  I was extremely excited to be returning to Chengdu as it is one of my favorite cities in China.  I always leave Chengdu feeling satisfied as it is a city that seems to have a great assortment of thing to offer from their variety of food, hospitable local-residents, foreign bars, and less congested feeling compared with Chongqing.  After two days of exploring Chengdu, eating nice western food, and enjoying the nightlife Cory and I felt rejuvenated once again.  On the morning of our third day in Chengdu, our tour to Mt. Emei and Leshan embarked at five forty-five in the morning.  If you know me well this was not one of my more favored starting times; however, since being in China I have become accustomed to a variety of things which I would at first been appalled with.  Leaving very early in the morning did have its advantages thought as we were able to get into Leshan before other tour groups arrived. 

Being challenged with an all Chinese tour was something that at first I would have been extremely hesitant to accept; fortunately, my improved Chinese along with the help of a bright young Chinese student (her English name was apropos: Fluent) helped to make the tour pain-free.  I enjoyed being able once again to travel with Cory and overall just being able to spend some time away from Rongchang.  The tour began by exploring the monstrous Leshan Buddha which is the world’s largest Buddha stone carving along as being the world’s largest pre-modern statute.  Getting down to the bottom of the statue took at least thirty-five minutes as the only way to get down is to pass through a narrow rock path cut into the canyon down to the foot of the Buddha.  Furthermore, the sheer number of travelers to the park created an exacerbated our overall wait time. The magnificence of the statue really is hard to explain as it truly does dwarf everything from the valley below.

Afterwards, the group toured a couple of different old Buddhist temples and explained the differences between the Bodhisattvas or Buddhist deities.  The one thing I found very interesting about the different Buddhist deities is that there is always a sense of right conduct, importance of relationships, and the effects of your actions relating to your current state in life.  I see Buddhism as being a religion which really does preach inner and outer peace along with striving for an understanding the whole person.  It is interesting to draw some parallels between Chinese culture and Buddhism since certain things such as the importance of right relationships plays an important part in both.

At the end of our first day we explored some other interesting and large Buddhist structures across from the Giant Buddha in Leshan.  The amazing size and scope of the Buddhist statues definitely leaves a mark on the traveler’s memory.  That night we enjoyed a relatively nice Chinese hotel service as Cory and I awaited an early tour to up to Mt. Emei’s summit. 

That next morning Cory and I awoke bright and early again but extremely rejuvenated from a solid night of sleep.  Unfortunately, the weather did not play its part as the fog was so dense it was hard to see twenty-five ft in front of you near the summit of Mt. Emei.  As the Chinese tour guide pointed out no one would be able to see anything at the top of the mountain which left the group with no choice but to turn back.  Taking the tour guides advice, the group descended from the near summit of Emei expectant regarding the rest of the day’s travels.  Luckily, by the time we visited the next stop of on our day’s schedule the weather had improved greatly allowing us to enjoy the rest of the tour sites.

The next stop on the tour was an exciting visit to one of China’s oldest Buddhist temples.  The view on the way up to the top was expansive as both Cory and I took in the beauty of the nature around us.  Cory and I were definitely in an adventurous mood as we elected to hike to the top of the temple; whereas, the rest of our group decided to take the cable cars up the mountain.  Along the way up the top of the mountain, Cory and I found ourselves sharing the road with oncoming horses caring material up and down from the temple.  I guess it is just another example of needing to expect the unexpected while living in China.

Walking around the Buddhist temple’s beautiful gardens full was breathtaking to the mind’s eye as special flowering trees were in blossom.  Along the way down the mountain our tour group stopped twice to rest, sample tea, and drink some fermented wine.  Cory and I both agreed that it would have been much more prudent to have only stopped once as time is always a premium while traveling; nevertheless, taking a rest in the afternoon is another piece of Chinese culture which certainly is widespread throughout the country and imbedded within Chinese DNA. 

The last stop on our tour was a beautiful rock canyon hike on the other side of Mt. Emei.  During this hike we were able to see a large group of wild monkeys and walk alongside a beautiful river and lake nestled between the mountains.  Cory and I both enjoyed this part of the tour since it was a great opportunity to do some hiking and enjoy the company of our close ancestors.  I guess that I was a little nervous around the monkeys since Cory had already warned me about his experiences with them last time he had been to Mt. Emei.  My fears did not materialize into anything luckily as both Cory and I were not hassled at all by any monkeys. 

That night we arrived back in Chengdu happy and content with the tour.  I felt that overall it was a great success and something that I would do again.  As I continue to strive to improve my Chinese I can only imagine that touring the country will become less of a hassle for me with time.  I did feel that I was really starting to make some nice strides though on my listening comprehension which I have always felt is weaker in comparison to my oral Chinese.

The next week in Rongchang was full of activity again for me as I prepared for my trip to Tianjin to meet up with Mr. Jeff Jiang.  Mr. Jiang is starting an educational advising consulting firm in Tianjin, China which provides comprehensive assistance to Chinese high schools students interested in studying abroad in the United States.  Some of the main areas which Jeff provides counseling include the expectations, challenges, and application process for attending college in the United States.  Jeff received a Chinese student visa over a decade ago and knows all about the tedious process, requirements, and differences between Chinese and American culture.  After receiving three masters degrees Jeff settled down in Eden Prairie, Minnesota with his family.  With his vast knowledge of the American education system and life experiences, I can think of no better candidate to educate future incoming Chinese foreign students than Mr. Jeff Jiang.

My traveling to Tianjin was the most pain-free I have had since being in China.  It is unbelievable how nice it feels to be able to know that you can do more than just communicate using your Chinese.  I have since noticed some of the important small things that can make a really big difference in communication such as putting emphasis on something, asking follow-up questions, and being able to be forceful when you need to be as all being very useful while communicating.  Interestingly, I find that all of these things I would have taken for granted while I was living in the United States.  Only by being deprived of using English to do these things I have I since learned how greatly important they are while communicating with others.

Once I arrived in Tianjin I was treated with real first class service by Mr. Jiang’s secretary, Lynne Ni.  Lynne picked me up at the airport and helped me get situated before I met Jeff at his office.  During my quick (I was only in Tianjin for three days) but productive time in Tianjin I found that I discovered a lot about what it means to be an entrepreneur.  Not only did I learn the difficulties that arise from starting one’s own business, but I also learned how persistence, resolve, and a strong will do pay off in the end.  I guess my experience in Tianjin taught me more about life lessons than actual work experience.

With that being said, I did learn a lot during the three different presentations Jeff and I gave during the weekend.  I felt that working with Jeff was extremely easy as his personality is quite amiable.  Beforehand, we meet together and discussed the PowerPoint presentations, his expectations, and even brain stormed some ideas.  Overall, I have to say that I am grateful for this learning experience and very appreciative for all of the opportunities that Mr. Jiang provided me.

After the last presentation was finished, Lynee and I went out for four hour’s worth of touring Tianjin together.  During this time, we were able to see an old-fashioned market, the cities historical concessions to European nations around the 1850’s,  visit a house made primarily of porcelain, and eat a delicious baozi dinner at a famous restaurant in Tianjin.  The last stop of the night was to the famous “Emancipation Bridge” across the _____ river.  Overall, it was a fantastic end to my first ever-business trip. 

The next weekend welcomed the beginning of May with International Labor Day.  This short holiday offered me the opportunity to travel to Si Mian Shan, a local provincial park in Chongqing with a friend from Rongchang.  As my friend, Maggie was the one who initiated the idea to travel and she was Chinese I felt confident that I could let her handle all of the arrangements on this tour. 

Getting to the Si Mian Shan Park was a bit of a long-haul as it took three different bus connections to finally end up at the park.  Nonetheless, once we finally did arrive and checked-in to the hostel we enjoyed a nice hike up to the top of the highest peak at the park.  Maggie and I both agreed that the view from the top was expansive and worth the effort hiking as you could see as far as the eye could perceive into the distance. 

The next day did not start well when the omnipresent omen of rain came to fruition.  As the rain increased in intensity Maggie and I were forced to miss out going down to the bottom of a waterfall since the rain had over-flown the walking path.  Likewise, we missed out going on a boat tour as the rain had made such an excursion uncomfortable as we were both drenched at this point in time already. Fortunately, the weather did improve enough for us to do some walking around the park which was wonderful.  We also made it to a Taoist temple which was very interesting since Taoism has seemingly been forgotten in popular culture next to Buddhism.

Our last day at Si Mian Shan was brief as we were in a need to start early on our voyage back to Rongchang.  The best part of the last day was that all of the other tourists had already left which allowed us to enjoy the peaceful natural environment without the frequent sound of people, cars, and motorcycles.  This was a nice time for me which allowed me to remember the nice tranquility of our families’ cabin up in North Minnesota.

               Finally, I have arrived at the not so distant past of yesterday to explain about one of the most fun times I have had in all my time in China as Cory, Ali, the Tian family, and Feng family enjoyed an unbelievable dinner together at my treat.  Following the dinner festivities, Cory treated the whole group out for a fun KTV excursion which had been my first in at least five months.  It was worth it though as Mr. Tian and Mrs. Tian, Mr. and Mrs. Feng, Cory and I, all danced and sang the night away.  It was really telling how close I have gotten to the Tian family for them to open up and dance as a group.  All in all, it was one of the most memorable times I have ever had in China and something that I will never forget.

               I know that lately I have truly been neglecting my writing and reading which I can relate to probably one concrete reason: I am studying Chinese a lot.  Also, I am really taking advantage of my last two months here in China as I know that nothing is ever guaranteed in life.  At the least, I know in my heart without a doubt that I really experienced a lot my last few months in China and made the best of a not always beneficial situation. 

               As I briefly look back over my time in China I find it hard to pinpoint the exact ways that I have changed.  I guess I have improved my self-confidence from felling successful speaking Chinese; however, that is probably one of the only concrete areas that I can say without a fact that I have changed as a person.  Nevertheless, I can say without a fact that I have changed as a person.  I think that people sometimes have a lot of trouble pinpointing exactness in life; therefore, I find it easier to describe as something that a person just feels inside.  I just would say that I feel differently than I did previously in my life and I know that I am glad for it.

I hope and pray that everyone is well and happy back in the United States.  As I will be heading home here relatively soon now I am becoming aware of all of the different things that I am going to exciting for having again after such a long hiatus.  I am especially looking forward to seeing family and friends as there are both foundation of my personal happiness. 

Best,

E.K.

                   

   

    

Revelations, culture, my life lately, teaching, and coming this month!

Since the beginning of my experience in China I have sought to answers to cultural questions that defined the China in the changing 21^st century.  During this period of time I have also examined social, political, and moral questions which I feel are important.  In the process I have often taken a hard look at the United States and criticized policies thoroughly when I felt it necessary to make a point.  The mere fact that I come from a country which allows such freedoms really defines me as a person and I am thankful each day that I have the liberties to voice my concerns when I feel it appropriate to do so.  In this quest for knowledge I have also tried my best to think about the question of what defines all citizens of the United States.  I realized that it was not going to be as easy as analyzing China due to their extremely homogenous background (Han Chinese 92.5 % of population).

It has taken me a long time to finally realize the one aspect that aligns all people in the United States together.  This trait is not something as analogous as skin color, common ancestry, or even political beliefs.  The knot that ties together all Americans is the idea of freedom.  It comes from the liberty to argue ideas in politics, with friends, and colleagues.  It is the right to express your personality in ways others might find strange.  It comes from the belief that the United States offers you asylum if your country is war torn and you need a place to raise a family and so on.  It has taken me a long time to try and come up with the exact idea that unites all citizens of the United States together; whereas, a country such as China has much more tangible similarities such as common ancestry and skin color which create much more ostensibly stronger bounds of union.  In the midst of my struggle towards discovering what idea truly defines an American identity I felt myself feeling a little bit frustrated for the fact that I could not present a more positivist answer together.  Since being in China, I have found that the Chinese are incredibly positivist in their thinking.  Here are a couple of examples I have discovered; a foreigner can only be a person of different skin color, how much money you make shows your value in life, and the image you portray is a direct reflection of the power you posses as a person. 

I believe that what unites United States citizens together is stronger than a simple bound of ancestry.  It is also greater than the mere appearance of a person’s skin.  The reality is that at times this idea can be extremely divisive in nature causing people in the United States to argue amongst one another.  The beauty of the idea of freedom is that it is quite strictly up to the eye of the beholder to decide what it exactly means.  Fortunately, the United States system of government allows for such discourse, discussion, and even banter to occur freely (within reason).  Even the founding fathers of the United States knew that people would have differing ideas about what it meant to be an American citizen and that is why they created a Bill of Rights, three branches of government, and a constitution which allowed for guidelines and the ability of ratification in times of need.

I can say that after living in a country which does not have these similar democratic principles over a year now that I am extremely proud of being an American.  Being born into freedom is one thing which I think many people take for granted living in the United States.  Once you come to know what the opposite side of the coin looks like you start to realize how truly special the United States is.  I know that our difference in opinions sometimes can work to build a dangerous divide amongst the differing social, political, age, and gender groups.  Sometimes the solutions to problems in the United States have not been best i.e.: (Compromise of 1820 / 1850, Chinese Exclusion Act of 1887, Japanese Interment, Red Scare, Patriot Act, etc). 

Nonetheless, over a period of time people in the United States have pushed for more rights including, Civil Rights legislation, equal pay for women, Social Security, Medicare, etc.  Not all of these solutions have properly solved the problems at hand; however, the mere fact that people in the United States have pushed for equality legislation tells me that there are those looking to improve problems at hand.  In summary, I feel that to be an American citizen is to believe in progress and pushing for better solutions to solving problems within the United States and being a leader abroad which is respected.  That may get me into some interesting discussions with friends and colleagues; however, I feel that as of now what the United States really needs are some great ambassadors out in the world improving our global image.  I am really proud of the fact that I can live in a country where I can live out this dream by doing exactly what I am doing here in China today.  Most people in the world could not hope to teach in a foreign country due to a multitude of reasons.  I am fortunate and love my country for all of these gifts it has given me.

My life lately has been one of great frustrations and even sweater victories.  I am at the point now that I really need a change in scenery.  I have for the most part loved my experience in China; a part from my experiences with their hospital system and omnipresent pollution.  The real problem is that I am now at the point where I cannot even go to a small village away from town without someone already knowing my name, being asked to take a photo, or followed walking in the park.  At first, I thought that it was just me being unreasonable and I should welcome their curiosity; however, after over a year of this behavior I have come to realize that everything I do in this small town magnified tenfold because I am a tall white foreigner.  The mere fact that my supervisor asked me why I spend a lot of time going on walks with a girl in town is simply one of the many ways in which this invasion of privacy has invaded my life.

On the other hand, I have made an incredible jump in my Chinese level which has allowed me to freely go on walks and talk to people in town even if they are only using their local dialect.  I have pushed myself extremely hard to learn Chinese for the past two and a half months and it has finally paid off.  Some of the methods which I have employed include: using note cards, listening tapes which have both Chinese and English, asking students questions, listening in restaurants to people speaking Chinese, speaking with friends in Chinese, watching Chinese movies with English subtitles, etc.  At first, my speaking goals were extremely simple.  I only wanted to be able to order food in a restaurant, use a taxi, get a bus ticket, etc.  Now I have gone to wanting to understand everything that is being asked of me (this becomes extremely difficult because most people will ask me questions in their local dialect) and pushing myself to be able to respond back in a positive manner. 

The incredible feeling I get from being able to communicate in Chinese still helps me to sally forth through the other inconveniences of living in a foreign country.  My desire to continue to learn the language to help me find a better job in business, education, our in the government all resonate with me still.  That is why I will seek teaching and studying Chinese one more year in a different city.  At Beibei’s University of 50,000 plus undergraduates, in a large metropolitan area, with over at thousand foreigners I know I will fit more into the environment and not stick out like a sore thumb anymore.  I can also take Chinese classes for foreigners instead of teaching myself this incredibly complex and interesting language.  Overall, I have had a wonderful time in Rongchang and am fortunate to have experienced a last glimpse of traditional China before the rest of the country transforms it image over night.

This semester my teaching responsibilities have lowered to teaching only four classes a week which has afforded me the ability to really spend time getting to know my students outside of the classroom.  Twice my students and I have gone out to dinner together.  One time they even came to my house to treat me to a delicious dumpling feast.  On the whole, I feel that I have done a much better job at becoming patient with my students and enjoying my time together with them this semester.  I tried to rush my teaching material too much my first two semesters in Rongchang and I think that was a mistake.  Only now do I realize that I can also make gains with my students outside of the classroom.  Even with this more holistic approach to teaching my students still rarely show their fun personalities in the classroom.  I feel that this breakthrough would be even more phenomenal based on the cultural restraints which bind students in China.  Even so, I will push myself to continue to work on improving my student’s ability to express their thoughts and make plans.

My Chinese friend told me something interesting the other day regarding their hypothesis on why Chinese students have such a difficult time learning how to make plans in the future of their lives.   From birth to college Chinese students are told by parents and teachers that they must study extremely hard in order to pass the daunting “Gao Kao” or Chinese college entrance exam.  This behemoth of an exam consists of five elements: Chinese, English, Math, Science, and Party (Communist philosophy). With only around fifty percent of high school students being able to pass this gauntlet it is no wonder why Chinese students push themselves hard in school.  The great competition aside would put fear into the hearts of most students and give you really no opportunity for free time.  Besides the daunting exam, Chinese cultural norms constrain students to maintain proper relationships with both family and teachers placing the student in a distinctly subservient manner in both relationships.

If the student is lucky enough to pass this gauntlet of an exam they will be able to go to college but not necessarily the college they want.  In China, students are placed in universities based off of their test scores.  Some students who are lucky can chose between a couple schools if their “Gao Kao” score and “guanxi” or “relationships” are strong enough.  In reality, most students do not have the ability to choose where they will go to college.  Once the student enters college they are placed in a major that correlates best with their highest scoring level on the “Gao Kao” exam.  Some of the lucky students can choose between a major but their choices are not easy.  Studying the liberal arts in college is looked down as being a substandard major in China; therefore, most students chose a major in math or science even if they preferred studying liberal arts.  After I thought about their childhood through college experience and compared it to that of mine it because obvious that they really never thinking freely.  Nowhere along the line of their lives to the point of graduation from college have Chinese students really made any choices on their own.  Their parents, teachers, and system all tell them exactly what they must do in order to succeed in China; whereas, my parents, teachers, and culture all push us to think on our own.  It is no wonder that they have trouble deciding things in their lives when you look at their lack of personal decision in their lives until getting a job (which can in some cases be chosen for them by family connections as well).

Another interesting phenomenon which has come up from time to time in conversation between Cory and I is, “Why do Chinese girls always go to the bar with guys even if they are not their boyfriend?”.  At first, we came up with a bunch of pretty funny and sometimes what we thought illuminating hypotheses.  Luckily, Cory had a conversation with a Chinese acquaintance the other day which shed some new light on the old topic.  Cory’s friend told him that Chinese girls are afraid to go alone or even in a group of girls to the bar because if they are treated poorly no one will step up to help them.  She explained this problem to Cory a good example.  First, if a person sees a girl being mistreated by another guy in China and they step in to break up the matter they will find themselves in a world of hurt.  Even if instigator knows he was in the wrong they will still unleash all of their guanxi against the Good Samaritan’s reputation.  This can mean telling people not to hire this person, creating libel, or even suing this person for damages caused by breaking up the fight.  Therefore, most people in China will not act out in order to help someone even if they know it is the right thing to do.

This cultural reality in China has resounding effects on how people act in everyday life.  It makes it exceedingly rare to find a person who will help people even if they see someone in extreme danger.  Ali, told me the other day that a Peace Corps volunteer was sued for helping a lady get back on her bike after she was hit by a car.  Since most people do not have life insurance in China the major form of recompense is on the spot bribery.  Bribery is another problem in China which reaches all levels of government and society.  I do realize that as a foreigner it is not in my place to put judgment on China.  I am all too aware of problems within the United States which are extremely problematic and resounding within our own culture and society.  I am simply trying my best to make interesting inferences on things that I believe are interesting in my own life and would also be for people back home.

As my birthday approaches, Cory and I have decided on doing a nice vacation to Chengdu.  In Chengdu, we are hoping to meet up with a couple of our friends, enjoy a different city, do some partying, and visit Mt. Emei and Leshan which are both in Sichuan province.  Thinking ahead is something that I do not like to do much, but both Cory and I are really excited to be doing a little traveling.  I will also be going to Tianjin during that week which will make Chengdu trip a little tighter.  Nonetheless, we are both happy to be traveling to Chengdu during a lull in the season which has allowed us to take advantage of some nice deals and low rates.

I know that this is a shorter blog than usually but I have nothing left to comment on besides that my parent’s birthday package arrived early with a new kindle.  The new kindle has become a great tool for studying Chinese away from my apartment and along with reading.  I am currently back reading the George Washington biography and really enjoying it.  I hope all is well in with everyone back in the United States.

Best,

E.K.          

Some important revleations and a few ruminations of late!

The last few weeks I have been busy teaching English and studying Chinese which both have become great passions of mine.  Of late, I have taken an extended break from over-exercising in order to allow my body the necessary time to heal from a strained abdominal muscle.  I also caught a pretty bad cold which exacerbating my period of down time the last two weeks. These two parallel trends have resulted in a complete change in my homeostasis as my personal life has suddenly reached a point of unmatched peace.  During this period of time I took a look at my life again for the first time in a few months.  I learned through some tough lessons that it is extremely important to live with a comfortable balance in life; neither giving the body too much, nor limiting it to too little of what it needs.  Living in extreme is both unhealthy to mind and the body.  I found out that not only was this true in a biological sense but also in a physical sense as well.  I was to discover after careful reflection on my life that I had chosen to be a teacher at a point in my life where I really did not know myself too well.

Looking back now, I realize that high school was not going to be a good fit for me personally as I am a person who desires competition and strives to have my success acknowledged by others.  Cooperation and teamwork are crucial aspects of teaching high school.  I am person who also wants to feel respected in the profession I am working in.  I believe that as a high school teacher, I would constantly have to try and earn the respect of students who I believe have the wrong outlook on what the teacher-student relationship is all about.  I feel that this is the opposite way that things should be and that I myself will never be able to change this reality; therefore, I must find a new type of career to meet my personal needs and desires. 

Since I have always been a very competitive person who enjoys communication and feels an intrinsic need and desire to respect people and be respected myself; I have decided that a career in business would best fit these requirements.  Obviously, a career in business is something that does not leave you feeling as intrinsically motivated as a career in teaching does; however, I believe that working for a company that is responsible for helping others through their products can also be extremely beneficial to people.  I also had the long standing belief that if I was to become a businessman I might become corrupted by greed or other self-indulgent desires outside of my own personal needs.  After some long mediation on the subject I finally realized that independent of your career a person can be good or bad depending on their own personal morals and not strictly based off of their line of work.  There are people in every career who are very good and very bad people; therefore, there is absolutely no reason why I cannot work in business and be one of the very good if I want to be.

With that in mind, I realized that there was nothing immoral about being a person in business.  I realized that I could be working for a positive and beneficial company whose products could make a positive difference in the lives of people every day.  I think that I found such a company in Ecolab.

I really like Ecolab’s global focus of promoting clean resources, energy efficiency, and healthy living.  I believe that being able to be a positive spokesperson for a company of this nature is the best answer for doing a beneficial career in business.  One important aspect for me I discovered was to find a company that would be creating products which benefitted all people around the world.  Ecolab’s acquisition of Nalco has positioned the company as a leader in the Asian market in the private sector. I also like Ecolab’s ability to push for efficient production of natural resources, such as water.

Another one of the important aspects of working for a company that has branches in Asia is that I can use my experiences in China to help me in my future career.  I really believe that I am making the most out of my experience; furthermore, I want to use my knowledge of China in which ever career I look towards in the future.  Since business between the United States and China will only continue to grow I feel that a career in business is an excellent way for me to be able to apply some of my understanding of China and the language best.        

Discovering that I needed to find a career that was right for me took a lot of reflection on my own life.  Looking back on my life in America, I realize now that I was constantly looking over my shoulder at the invisible competitor in my rearview mirror.  This caused me to push myself in every aspect of my life from sports, school, to even better my relationships.  I discovered that I often did things for reasons outside of myself and in ways that really were not ethical in order to satisfy my desire to succeed.  This took on a whole new level of obsession in college as I competed for a spot in division 1A football. 

In order to get to that desired level of competition I pushed my body to its limits as I lifted, ate, and trained everyday for the chance to play.  As I soon became frustrated for the first time in my life to succeed at something I turned to excess drinking, partying, and eating to assuage my bereavement at not being able to play.  Only after I had finished college and starting losing my excess weight from football did I realize the results of my unhealthy lifestyle the previous few years.  This came to as a shock to me as I had only ever been reinforced by society that I was supposed to be able to succeed at whatever I put my mind to.  Unfortunately, I had warning signs along the way from my family and friends giving me good advice.  The reality was that I did not really understand myself growing up and missed a lot of lessons that would be clear to me today.

This whole experience coupled with my loss of faith in the high school education system helped to propel me on the single greatest journey of my life.  Since I felt that I had consumed too much in the previous few years of college, and I decided that it was time for a change in my life, China seemed like a perfect place for me to go to push myself.  From talking with professors and acquaintances I knew that China was a place where I would not be surrounded by the abundance of things like I had become accustomed to as an American.  I also realized that I would be pushed in new and exciting ways which would help me solve some of the important issues in my own personal life.  On this journey I would travel though many different periods and face many different challenges.  The one constant belief during the whole journey has been my feeling that throughout it all I came to China for the right reasons and knew what I was getting myself into.

As I started my journey into my life in China I met challenges in the same mode as I always had in my life; face forward without fear of pain or failure.  Unfortunately, I was to find that again my dreams were going to be dashed as my body was not destined to endure a year’s worth of over training for the Chongqing marathon.  The beauty of this failure came in the fact that for the first time in my life I did not push myself to the point of completely tearing my hamstring to learn that I was not destined to champion the marathon this year.  Instead, I discovered that it was much better to not over-train my body and live within my physical limitations.  Successfully finding my boundaries before reaching a critical point of injury in my life was a real joy for me.

The second great change in my life came from analyzing the effects of my different lifestyle in China.  As I realized that Americans lived outside of their means both physically and mentally; I decided that I was going to try and live like the rest of the world and limit my resource capacity.  This was a somewhat interesting experiment that was eventually destined for failure.  At the time, I believed that I could maintain a healthy lifestyle and pursue intense exercise on a low-calorie / carbohydrate diet as long as I consumed enough sugar and drank plenty of fluids while exercising.   

The combined influences of training for a marathon, changing the content of my diet, and limiting my total caloric intake had drastic effects on my physical level of performance as time wore on.  That along with my incessant desire to not fail again forced me to sally forth through a summer of record heat in Chongqing, a place already known for being one of the warmest cities in China. 

Only after my failure was I able to realize that it was not best for my body to be limited in the resources it needed.  Therefore, I learned that living in either extreme excess or deprivation of what the body needed was truly unhealthy.  Only now do I realize that the body and mind are happiest when given exactly what they needs; no more, no less.  This seemingly easy lesson which everyone is told from a young age seems to have somehow avoided my realization in my state of being growing up.  Only now have I determined that in order to be successful I must meet the demands of my biological, mental, and spiritual self in moderation in order to be truly happy in life.

               All of this knowledge came through to me as I have spent the past few days talking with my Chinese friends over a variety of topics.  One such friend I have spent several times visiting helping prepare to take the equivalent of the GRE examination in the United States has helped me improve my Chinese greatly of late.  He asked me what I had been thinking about lately which helped me realize that I really had put a great deal of thought into my future without reflecting on the past few months in China.  Eric and many more of my Chinese friends are very responsible for helping me through some of these revelations as I have increasingly spent time working on my Chinese the past two months.

               The greatest change in my personal life has centered on my desire to really embrace speaking Chinese on a daily basis.  That coupled with nearly twenty hours of Chinese podcasts watched, a dozen Chinese movies, hundreds of note cards written, and many questions asked has helped me improve my Chinese at an accelerated pace the past two months.  My personal devotion to studying Chinese along with conversing in Chinese with my Chinese friends Eric, Jack, Maggie, and Emma have allowed me to reach a whole new level of verbal Chinese communication.  My greatest single obstacle remaining before feeling able to converse freely is my still a lack of clear comprehension of what people are saying back to me.  When I reach the point where I understand everything that is being said to me in return I know that I will be on my way to language proficiency.

               The other day in class I asked my students to share about any great ideas that they had discovered in their own lives.  Most of my students echoed similar responses relating to promoting world peace, protecting the environment, nature, etc.  The response of one student really stood out though as he remarked on wishing his high school experience could have been similar to that of an American student in high school.

After thinking a while and talking to a lot of my Chinese friends I discovered that many really do desire to be able to have the ability to think freely on their own.   Many are sick of living in fear that the government will take away everything in their life without having to answer for their actions.  Most of all, many would just like to be able to experience what it feels like to be able to have the freedom  to express themselves like Americans can.  Every single one of my students I have talked about their future have told me that they are so busy and need to work so hard that they never had time to consider their future.  Some discussed with me the frustration they had with not being able to choose the major they wanted to study, the school they went to, or being able to have the freedom that American students had to share ideas.

The thing that struck me most from this discussion was that with all of the freedom, liberty, and power of expression that American students have I should have been the happiest student on the planet in the United States.  Instead, I feel that I took a lot of things for granted growing up in America and wasted a lot of opportunities to be truly original.  I believe that I did not realize the freedoms that I had as a student, and I also feel like I did not even do a great job discovering a career I wanted to do while in college.  Likewise, I feel that most students in the United States take these same freedoms for granted and are as likely as I was to end up looking for a job in the wrong direction.  From looking at the situation from the standpoint of a Chinese student, I really feel a little depressed that many of my American peers will look back on their lives and wonder why they to choose the career that they did.  I would think that with the liberal education system in the United States more people would end up working in career that they loved.  Yet I think if everyone were honest with themselves many people would say that they are not in the right career and wish they could have found a different vocation.

The last great revelation which I found recently had to do with the idea of historical timing and benefiting from history in a way I would never have imagined without living in China.  The background from my revelation came from the fact that many people in China will tell you that China is a developing nation today.  At first, I felt that this comment was very odd indeed since I always thought of China as single greatest threat to the United States in an economic and military sense.   Therefore, when my students kept telling me this I felt that this might be a Communist propaganda campaign targeted to make people believe that they needed to feel threatened and use this as motivation to succeed. 

After being in one of China’s rural parts for over a year now I realize that this statement is absolutely true.  China has many problems with their infrastructure and a lot of them steam from the fact that they are trying to finish modernizing their country very fast.  The effects of China’s rapid modernization is that the today the country is dealing with a lot of pollution, poor workmanship, and demand issues related towards finding buyers for all the real-estate apartments that keep popping up almost overnight.  China is still the world’s premier producer of low priced goods, so they must challenge their mind set to try and modernize fitting a western model which has a one-hundred year plus head start in some areas of modernization.  I can see all of the problems of this modernization as everything from China’s transportation, electricity, and water development occurred in a matter of decades.  I thought about the history of the United States in comparison to China regarding our period of modernization and realized how lucky history was to the United States during our own industrialization period.

First off, the United States was extremely fortunate to not have to re-invent an older infrastructure and in a matter of decades such as China has done.  The United States was also favored by not having the population challenges that China has contend with.  Another important factor was the reality that like China the United States also had an abundance of cheap immigrant and slave labor during its industrial revolution to help develop it the manufacturing and agricultural sectors.  The greatest thing that benefited the United States was that besides the American Civil War (1860-1865) the United States developed during a relatively stable part of its history.  I think that many historians would also argue that the American Civil War helped to push manufacturing to reach production demands just like World War I and II did.  The obvious but unstated fact is that unlike China today people also flocked to the United States to take part in a democratic system which favored liberty to monarchy.  Therefore, many great European minds came across to help create innovative solutions and take advantage of American capitalism and opportunities unavailable in their former countries.

Overall, the last few weeks have been wonderful for me and I hope that I can continue to enjoy myself in China this much for the next few months before I visit Minnesota this summer!  Loving and missing of all throughout this period has been one of the steadfast parts of my experience.  Nonetheless, I am happy to report that I am happy and that things are going as well as they have for me since I arrived in China this time last year.

Best,

E.K.

 

         

 

                                

Times change and so can people too!!!

The past few weeks I have been experiencing an incredible change in my attitude.  To be honest, I had to re-examine a bit why I decided to come to China in the first place and think about what were my major goals.  I decided that it was time for me to put all my effort into improving my spoken Chinese before coming home this year for the summer.  This decision has allowed me to really appreciate my time in China and focus the greatest part of my attention on a noble and attainable goal.  I did come to China with a little background knowledge of their history, but I would say that nothing in my life had created a passion in me for Chinese culture previous to coming to China like I have know.  The little history I thought I know about China evolved after taking a history course from the visionary guidance of Professor Bohr.  The real watershed moment came for me after I made the decision to purchase a twelve-hour Chinese podcast last month.  After finishing the first tape, I purchased another six-hour podcast and have been spending a great amount of time each day devoted towards oral Chinese.

The other great change came from the books I had been reading prior to my Kindle’s demise last week.  The end of my Kindle came as I was engulfed in the reading of a “George Washington” biography.  After falling asleep I forgot to put the Kindle away on the shelf, and you guessed it, I rolled over and elbowed it during the night.  The past few books greatly had changed my perspective on a wide variety of topics.  I really took the life of George Washington to heart as I began to realize that I shared a characteristic trait with one of the founding fathers.  I too believe greatly in self-improvement and lifelong learning which I feel both are noble pursuits.  Therefore, I decided that I needed to tackle the one area which I felt most lacking in my life right now and that was oral Chinese communication.

I pushed myself each day and spent countless hours of listening, speaking, practicing note cards, and taking notes on oral Chinese.  As time wore on, I discovered that spending time working on Chinese no longer felt like work but seemed more like a passion to me.  My desire to learn Chinese grew as I pursued conversations more eagerly.  Each conversation seemed to go more smoothly and produced in me a greater sense of confidence after I was slowly improving my listening comprehension.  My spoken Chinese is not bad; however, I was really have a tough time understanding what people have been asking me which left me feeling very frustrated at times.  The next evolution in my studying of Chinese came when I started watching Chinese movies with subtitles which pushed my listening comprehension skills more. Coupling my personal studying habits with time spent walking with my friend Maggie, an eighteen-year English studying veteran, has helped me to improve my Chinese of late. 

In the past two weeks I have gone out and ordered all the food and drinks at a restaurant, done my own dry cleaning, and frequently taken taxis around town.  With my confidence growing I spent the past two Sunday’s chatting with my good friend, Emma in Chongqing using mostly Chinese.  That change along with the start of a new semester of teaching has really changed my outlook at my entire experience in China.  I now feel a lot more passion for being in China and understand that I can one day reach my goals of speaking Chinese fluently if I put my mind to it.

In the past few weeks I have decided that I dream of being able to next year travel somewhere in China using only Chinese.  With this being said, I also am planning on visiting Cambodia and Thailand next year, so I know I will need to work very hard to save up my salary as much as possible starting this month.  Having this tangible and attainable goal has put a new face on my studying of Chinese and really encouraged me to keep working at it.  My Chinese friends are great at being patient with me while I work steadfastly at improving my oral Chinese and have reminded me what it means to be a patient listener. 

I really have come to respect the level of friendship which I find very unique to Asian cultures.  I have no where in my life been able to say that I would with the same frequency help out friends in need in the United States.  I understand now that a lot of Asian cultures promote saving-face and pressuring people to do certain things regardless of their intrinsic motivation.  Even so, I have had some very open conversations with friends and found that they would most times do the same things for honest people even without the Chinese cultural expectations.  I truly believe that before I came to China I wanted to be a good person in life and do the right things if given the chance.  China has shown me a whole other level of kindness which I hope I will remember when it comes my time to help a friend in need.

From really engrossing myself in Chinese culture I discovered a greater personal appreciation and respect for it.  I have recently been watching Chinese movies which have covered a variety of topics from Confucius to the Cultural Revolution.  After reading the latest Lisa See Novel titled, “The Dreams of Joy” which describes with great detail the disastrous effects of Chinese Great Leap Forward a real sadness developed in me for the people of China.  This attempt to pass the modernized western world in a few years time with suspect harvesting policies, propaganda, threats, murder, and fear is but a glimpse into the defects of a unitary state system. 

Unfortunately, I often wonder to myself what becomes of a place which celebrates someone responsible for so much destruction and builds them up into a demigod for posterity’s sake.  What Mao did to his own people in order to pursue his own personal agenda resembles Stalin in Russia, Hitler in Germany, Cesar in Rome, etc.  One of the things which people in China often say is that it was not Mao’s entire fault since he had some bad people in his gang of four running the country with him.  My response to that is that a leader is responsible for the people they put around them to run a government.  If those around them reflect poor governing tendencies than it is the responsibility of that leader to appoint new leaders.  This is especially true in places which do not reflect democratic tendencies. 

I found that some of China’s traditional films depicted peace and harmony as being superior to war and loss of life.  I feel that at the heart of most Chinese people is a great desire to be at peace with others.  This tendency has many different reverberations throughout society some which are positive and others which I feel are negative.  One of the more interesting ones I find is the sense of being almost ambivalent towards the outside world and news outside of China.  There is a feel that China still and always has been the “Middle Kingdom” literally “Zhong Guo” (pinyin for China”.  I believe that many people in China would like nothing more than to be left alone by the rest of the world and left to live their own lives in peace.

I enjoyed greatly my first class of the spring semester this week and believe that I have a good group of students I will be working with.  My class schedule has been cut back which is going to give me more time to be able to continue learning Chinese each day which I am excited about.  I have learned to not expect a lot from my students in regards to their motivation to attend class, interest in English, and level of proficiency.  Therefore, I have come to except that I will not be able to control the destiny of my own course as by the end of most semester I am down to only a couple of students attending class.

The past week I was injured with what at first I feared might be a serious problem with my appendicitis.  Luckily, after a few days time the symptoms regressed and I was able to regain full activity level in a week’s time.  Going to the hospital again in China reminded me of the incredibly different approach to medicine China has compared to western nations.  I also realize that due to China’s incredible amount of patients in the hospital people the system cannot be the same as in the United States.  However, the differences are stark as going to the hospital truly feels like going to the market. 

First, you will see a general doctor who examines you and hears your symptoms.  This doctor will advise you to go get a specific test done at another location which will bring you to a different doctor.  At that station, the doctor will usually scan something specific and pass the results on to another doctor which will take another scan and so on.  After finishing all the necessary tests you report back the results to the first doctor who decides what to do.  That first doctor is also the one who examined you and proscribes a certain treatment for the patient.  The patient finishes by going to another counter to pay for his medication.  Throughout the time at the hospital you are surrounded by people waiting at the doctor’s desk to get their tests examined, medication proscribed, etc.  There can be anywhere from ten-twenty people with a doctor at anytime.  At no time will a patient and doctor have privacy in this process.  Obviously, in this system personal testing results are verbally broadcasted for all to hear.

After spending over a year in China now I can safely say that visiting the doctor is my least favorite thing about being here.  The weather in Chongqing is a constant negative as well; however, I have learned to tolerate that part of the experience as no person can change the weather.  The third thing which I feel to be the biggest detractor to living in China is the constant pollution and proximity to people which a person deals with constantly.

Overall, I am excited to begin a new semester and feel that as my first year in China is winding down I can safely say I have made great strides in oral Chinese.  Where I go from here in regards to learning the language is really up to me.  Two interestingly different traits have increased in me as my appreciation for being in China has increased in ways and digressed in other ways.  I feel greater love for my experiences here and treasure them more and also a greater longing to be home to see family and friends.  In this way, I believe that I am going to be satisfying both desires by taking advantage of my time in China to speak the language and looking forward to coming home this summer to visit Minnesota.

I wish all of you the best in this early spring season.

E.K.